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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2009 5:16:27 GMT -8
Flora of course not, I am sure everyone here sends their good wishes, and your friend will be in my prayers tonight! my best friends family is going through hell at the moment his baby grandaughter is in intensive care because of a very nasty virus which has caused her lungs to collapse she has just turned 1 year old. this is doubly devastating for the family because she has contracted the same virus that killed his first born son nearly 40 years ago. please could everybody rmember them and baby Derya in their prayers and thoughts. It seems too cruel that they could lose two babies to this thing. I feel so helpless and unable to help them, I hope you all don't mind me bringing this here. Flora |
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Post by ce4666* on Feb 26, 2009 7:22:09 GMT -8
Flora, I'm so sorry about what is happening. And to such a young child.
I send good energy and support that everyone makes it through this difficult time.
Best wishes.
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Post by Vittoria* on Feb 26, 2009 7:34:01 GMT -8
Flora, I will chant for Derya.
Thank you for reaching out to us.
xo
V
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Post by robyn on Feb 26, 2009 9:42:19 GMT -8
Dear Flora,
I am so sorry to hear that. I will definately pray for baby Derya and her family.
God bless baby Derya.
xoxo
Robyn
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Post by rileysmom on Feb 26, 2009 10:00:35 GMT -8
Dear Flora, do not feel helpless . You are a caring person, i can tell by your post. First remember, things are medically different then they were years ago. Next remember everyone must stay positive, not if this precious child will be healed, but when. Miracles happen all the time. Please share with you friends this. My brother was born in the 1950's at three pounds missing some major pieces of intestine. After doing everything Dr's could do they sent him home on a bed pillow, they told mom and dad make him feel loved, let him pass with family and love... Well let me tell you , my brother is now awaiting the birth of his first grandchild this spring. I have chills writing this. There is no rhyme or reason for his being here, Dr's are still perplexed. Come back here any time for support. you will be added to my prayer list along with this family. Allow yourself some kindness, you are doing exactly what, as humans we should do, No one is an island. xoxoRileysmom
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Post by ce4666* on Feb 26, 2009 10:28:36 GMT -8
Not to add false hope, but I have similar stories to rileysmom's post.
My dad was diagnosed with a heart problem as a child and was told he would not live very long. He is now 77 years old and plays tennis most days.
A previous boss of mine had breast cancer since she was in her 20's. She still fights it, but she is almost 60 years old.
It's interesting because both people have developed an amazing outlook toward life. Kind of a "live every moment as it comes" outlook.
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Post by Claudia on Feb 26, 2009 11:55:06 GMT -8
Ahh... this breaks my heart. It's so hard watching a child go through anything. Many prayers sent their way. Blessings!
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Post by flora on Feb 26, 2009 15:10:46 GMT -8
just an update on this and a thankyou for your thoughts prayers and time in thinking of this poor child and her family. it really is appreciated i can assure you. I have told my friend that i posted this on here and he is very grateful to you all for your kindness.
Baby Derya has lasted the day without getting any worse, although she hasn't actually got any better either we are hoping the fact that it hasn't got any worse is a good sign that her poor little body is fighting back.
She is on IV meds, drip etc but is managing so far without a ventilator ( due to the state of the NHS if she needs a ventilator she would have to be transfered 200 miles to the nearest one, obviously not a safe journey for such a poorly little one) so that in itself is hopefull, she is labouring but stable.
she hasn't been conscious but has spent much of the time in the arms of her mummy and daddy, heaven help them! the poor people must be going through real hell .
I will let you all know how she is tomorrow and once again thankyou lovely people for your time thoughts and prayers XX
Flora
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Post by lala58 on Feb 26, 2009 15:20:21 GMT -8
Oh my gosh, I just saw this and the update. I'll be thinking about her as well, and sending what I call MOTHER'S LOVE into the Universe with strong thoughts of recovery. Love LALA  |
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Post by artgirl 67DB on Feb 26, 2009 15:22:54 GMT -8
Sending healing thoughts and Reiki... never give up hope! Miracles do happen.
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Post by veganmark4411B on Feb 26, 2009 18:58:07 GMT -8
I will send healing thoughts but I am a Jewish Humanist so no prayer. However, may your young friend find healing through science, doctors, and positive energy.
Marcos
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Post by flora on Feb 26, 2009 23:48:58 GMT -8
another update.. little Derya was moved at 2am this morning she is now on a ventilator. On the plus side she is now in one of the best childrens hospitals in the country so she has the best of medical science behind her  may I say thankyou to you all for everything you are doing for Derya, whether you call it prayer , healing or positive energy to me it means that there is a world of lovely people out there who want to help this little girl and her stricken family, and that, I know, is of solace to them. you all make me smile and be so glad I met you, albeit on this strange planet we call cyberspace. love and hugs |
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Post by ellenB on Feb 27, 2009 3:36:50 GMT -8
Just saw this, Flora, so sorry , the poor little baby. I am with the family and Derya and send loving thougts.
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Post by rileysmom on Feb 27, 2009 8:49:03 GMT -8
flora, please let us know , anytime you can, how everyone is doing.Please come back and renew your strength anytime you need to. all my family's love . feel free to pm me if you need prayer. rileysmom
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Post by robyn on Feb 27, 2009 18:28:32 GMT -8
Dear Flora,
I hope little Derya is okay. Bless her little soul.
I will keep praying.
Love
Robyn
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my best friends family is going through hell at the moment his baby grandaughter is in intensive care because of a very nasty virus which has caused her lungs to collapse she has just turned 1 year old.
